My husband’s addiction to painkillers is ruining our marriage. It's as if the person I married is gone, only to be replaced by a version that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. When he's not directly lying to me about his drug use, he's completely incoherent. He can barely stand up straight half the time, let alone hold down a job. We’ve tried going to couple’s therapy, but it didn’t stick. I never dreamed I'd be a divorce statistic but what else can I do? He needs a wake-up call.